My sister and I grew up in a little village in England. Our father was a struggling lawyer, but I always knew he was 1 . He never criticized (批评) us, but used 2 to bring out our best. He"d say, "If you pour water
on flowers, they flourish (茂盛). If you don"t give them water, they die." I 3 as a child I said something
unkind about somebody, and my father said, " 4 time you say something unpleasant about somebody else,
it"s a reflection of you." He explained that if I looked for the best about people, I would get the best 5 . From
then on I"ve always tried to 6 the principle (原则) in my life and later in running my company.
Dad"s also always been very 7 . At 15, I started a magazine. It was 8 a great deal of my time, and the
headmaster of my school gave me a 9 : stay in school or leave to work on my magazine.
I decided to leave, and Dad tried to sway (使动摇) me from my decision, 10 any good father would. When
he realized I had made up my mind, he said, "Richard, when I was 23, my dad suggested me to go into law. And
I"ve 11 regretted it. I wanted to be a biologist, 12 I didn"t pursue (追求) my 13 . You know what you
want. Go fulfill (实现) it."
As it turned out, my little publication went on to become Student, a national 14 for young people in the
U.K. My wife and I have two children, and I"d like to think we are bringing them up in the same way Dad 15
me.